Couples Therapy

When you were dating,…

… communication and intimacy problems were the furthest thing from your mind.

Everything flowed well.

You were excited to see each other, loved talking, and had a great sex life.

But that’s all changed.

Things just aren’t working.

You find yourself thinking of being single and all the things you would do if you didn’t have to rely on someone else. But then you feel sorry for your partner; how would they ever get along without you?

Exhaustion sets in when you even think of trying to change someone who is not willing to change.

And lately, you wonder if it’s even worth trying to make this work.

You’ve committed too much to walk away easily.

It’s often fear that keeps you in this relationship:

You fear the sadness and loneliness.
You remember how horrible it was to date.
You don’t remember how to date. Where would you start?
What about the kids? Would they prefer the fights or a breakup?

Then the hows:

How would you explain a breakup to everyone?
How would you support yourself?
How would you see the kids or raise them on your own?
How can you make such a life-changing decision on your own?

So how do you stay?

Together, we can help you identify the personal and relationship values most important to you. Through our work, you’ll rediscover how to live in alignment with those values.

We will give you the tools to manage the discomforts, the I don’t-want-tos, and the I-can’t-stand-its. With that relief in place, you’ll learn how to collaborate, not compromise, about how you will show up to each other and the world.

You and your partner will learn to discuss important issues, construct a blueprint for your relationship, and become “we” again.

Don’t “just” stay. Be the partner you want to be.

Beyond the work you do as a couple, you’ll also get to figure out what kind of partner you want to be.

We’ll help you recognize and connect with the loving, available, supportive, and sexual partner you want to be – however, that looks for you. There’s freedom to figuring it out and bringing your best self to this important part of your life.

Create a marriage that works for both of you.

Take the first step toward building your relationship into what it used to be. Reach out today.